Thoughts on Reading for Lovers

Money and Love are the two biggies. When people seek out counsel, these are often common themes. Although I am not a fortune teller and I don't claim to be able to tell you when your soul mate will be arriving or if he will be rich, I do read for romance. I understand that our relationships with others are most often the cornerstones of our lives and - depending on the situation - can bring us profound joy or deep sorrow.

Unfortunately it is difficult to read for romantic related issues. There are often many variables at play.

First of all, unless the couple seeks you out together, you will only be reading for half of the party involved. This means that you are going to be receiving only half the information needed to truly provide meaningful guidance. If the couple is going through a rough patch, there may be a lot of finger pointing. It is really easy to get caught up in the blame game, even as an "impartial" third party, if you are only hearing one side of the story.

The second major problem (for me) is that I am not a marriage or relationship counselor. I have not been formally trained to work with couples. My work centers around self improvement and self love - all about the individual. Relationships are deeply complex and dynamic by nature. What is working for one couple won't work for another. There are many unseen forces at play in romantic partnerships which extend far past my ability to assess. To be honest, I would leave this sort of work to the professionals.

However, when I do read for romantic queries I stick to my motto: "It all comes back to self". I am providing guidance for the individual who sought me out, and my work is to help her have a deeper and more understanding relationship with herself. The best part is that - in doing this - I will help her to improve her relationships with others.

It is my firm belief that we cannot change others, we can only change ourselves. Sometimes our problems with others can be traced to issues we have with ourselves. Obviously this is not always the case. Some people are just bullies, but even the bullies can teach us something about ourselves. That is where I can be of service. I can help my client to navigate his end of the relationship, the lessons learned and the pearls of wisdom revealed. I can help him to gain a deeper understanding of himself and prepare him for the next phase of the process.

This is simply my view of reading for relationships, and if you are a reader, you will have to come up with your own code of ethics. It is just my opinion that there are those more qualified than I to help with these kinds of matters - particularly when dealing with heavier issues of infidelity, abuse and neglect. In these cases I firmly advise you seek out a professional.

I hope this little bit of insight has been helpful for you.

Blessings!

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